*jealousy*

haha, guess i'm bored. Sho let's just talk about jealousy!!

We all heard of it, this particular green eyed monster that simply infiltrate into people's mind and eventually making them do things they don't want to.

So what on earth ish jealousy? Jealousy simply comes in many different forms. Be it relationships, success, material possession and affection/attention, jealousy happen.. all the time. And if not taken the right steps to curb it, it may prove to be deadly.

Let's start off with relationships, either between lovers and friends. Alright this may sound ironic here, i personally think a little jealousy is needed to sustain a healthy relationship. guess that's what they call... "cute jealousy". Face it, how would you feel when your significant other don't give a hoot when you are flirting with other people outright in front of him/her? You won't feel good at all, instead you'll feel offended instead. This is purely because u'll tend to feel that he/she doesnt care at all.

So what happens when cute jealousy takes place? him/her throws a mini tantrum and you end up consoling him/her. I believe this will actually bring the two parties closer and improve the communication between both of them. (remember! don't attempt to make your ger/guy jealous just because you're jealous. It doesnt work that way!)

Now, the "killer jealousy". So what exactly takes place? Simple. It kills the relationship eventually if left unattended. there are people out there who are way too possessive that even his/her significant other are not allowed to make friends with the opposite sex. and eventually, he/she feel trapped and wants out of the relationship. and *slash slash* murders follow thereafter due to raging jealousy. This is an example of the worst scenario.

guess the main cause of this killer jealousy ish due to the lack of trust, oversensitiveness and paranoia. So guys out there, gers hate guys who are easily jealous. why? coz they arent behaving like real men. and gers want real men.

Dang. Here am i at it again, crapping 24/7 non stop. haha this whole entry ish just my 3 cents worth of perspective.. So if there's anybody who wanna disagree wib it, feel free to do so via the comments box. I guess that's all.. good nights all.

ps: In case you're wondering why I didnt offer solutions. Haha, i myself have difficulty coping with jealousy. But so far wad works for me ish.. stop thinking so much and get yourself occupied instead.

-don't know which way to go-